-careforthisandlosethat;attendtoonethingandlosesightofanother;cannotattendtoonethingwithoutneglectingtheother;beputinadoublesqueeze;unabletoattendtoeverythingatonce;unabletohitonewithoutlosingholdoftheother;unabletocopewithonewithoutlettinggooftheother;unabletoattendtoallone'stroubles;unabletograb[takeholdof]onewithoutlosingholdofanother;havetoomanythingstotakecareofatthesametime